Bismillaahir rahmaanir rahiim
(Dengan nama Allah, yang Maha Pemurah, lagi Maha Penyayang)
أَشهَدُ أَن لَا اِلهَ اِلاَّ اللَّهُ
وَأشهَدُأَنَّ
مُحَمَّداَ رَسُلُاالله
Asyhadu allaa ilaa ha illallaahu wa-asyhadu anna Muhammadar rasuulullaah
(Aku bersaksi dan mengaku bahawa tiada Tuhan yang sebenarnya melainkan Allah. Dan aku bersaksi dan mengaku dengan sesungguhnya bahawa Nabi Muhammad itu pesuruh Allah)
When I was little,
I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,
And then I started to become a woman.
And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up,
God would show you the best in many friends.
One friend is needed when you're going through things with your man.
Another friend is needed when you're going through things with your mom.
Another will sit beside you in the bleachers as you delight in your
children and their activities.
Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be.
One friend will say, 'Let's cry together,'
Another, 'Let's fight together,'
Another, 'Let's walk away together.'
One friend will meet your spiritual need,
Another your shoe fetish,
Another your love for movies,
Another will be with you in your season of confusion,
Another will be your clarifier,
Another the wind beneath your wings.
But whatever their assignment in your life,
On whatever the occasion,
On whatever the day,
Or wherever you need them to meet you with their gym shoes on and hair pulled back,
Or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself .
THOSE ARE YOUR BEST FRIENDS.
It may all be wrapped up in one woman, But for many, it's wrapped up in several.. 
One from 7th grade,
One from high school,
Several from the college years,
A couple from old jobs,
On some days your mother,
On some days your neighbour,
On others, your sisters,
And on some days, your daughters.
So girls… whether you've been a friend for 20 minutes or 20+ years, Thanks for being in my circle.
source: world wide web
by Susan Polis Schutz
Get to know yourself - what you can do
and what you cannot do -
for only you can make your life happy
Believe that by working, learning and achieving
you can reach your goals and be successful
Believe in your own creativity as means of expressing your true feelings
Believe in appreciating life
Be sure to have fun every day and to enjoy
the beauty in the world
Believe in love
Love your friends, your family, yourself and your life
Believe in your dreams
and your dreams can become a reality.
In a Chinese modern dance competition on TV, one very unique couple won one of the top prizes. Here's their story ...
The lady, in her 30's, was a dancer who had trained since she was a little girl. Later in life, she lost her right arm in an accident and fell into a state of depression for a few years. Someone then asked her to coach a Children's dancing group. She realized that she could not forget dancing. She still loved to dance and wanted to dance again.
That was her turning point, she started to do some of her old routines, but having lost her arm, she had also lost her balance. It took a while before she could even make simple turns and spins without falling.
Then she heard of a man in his 20s who had lost a leg in an accident. He had also fallen into denial, anger and depression, an emotional roller coaster.
She was determined to find him and persuade him to dance with her.
He had never danced. Therefore, to "dance with one leg .... are you joking with me? No way!" was his reply.
She didn't give up, and he reluctantly agreed thinking, "I have nothing else to do anyway."
She started to teach him dancing. The two broke up a few times because he had no concept of using muscle, how to control his body and knew none of the basic things about dancing.
When she became frustrated and lost patience with him, he would walk out. Eventually, they came back together and started training seriously.
They hired a choreographer to design routines for them. She would fly high (held by him) with both arms (a sleeve for an arm) flying in the air. He could bend horizontally with just one leg supported by his walking stick with her leaning on him, etc. In the competition, as you will see, they dance beautifully and they legitimately won the competition. "
ALL IN YOUR MIND
When things go wrong as they sometimes will
When the road you are trudging seems all up hill
When funds are low and the debts are high
And you want to smile but you had to sigh
When care is pressing you down a bit
Rest if you must but don’t ever quit
Life is queer with its twist and turns
As everyone of us sometimes learns
And many a failure turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out
You may succeed with another blow
Often the goal is nearer than it seems
to a faint and struggling man
Often the struggler has given up
When he might have captured the victor’s cup
And he learned too late when the night slipped down
How close he was to the golden crown
Success is failure turned inside out
The silver tent of the clouds of doubts
And you can never tell how close you are
It may be near when it seems afar
So stick to the fight when you are hardest hit
It’s when things seem worst that you mustn't quit!!
“A QUITTER NEVER WINS,
A WINNER NEVER QUITS”
source: world wide web
“Because I am a woman,” she told him
“I don’t understand,” he said
His mom just hugged him and said… “And you never will, but that’s OK.”
“All women cry for no reason”, was all his Dad could say.
The little boy grew up to be a man and still wondered why. So, finally he asked God… “Dear God, why do women cry so easily?”
“When I made woman,
I decided that she had to be special,
I made her shoulders strong enough
to carry the weight of the world,
yet,
made her arms gentle enough to give comfort…
I gave her the inner strength
to endure childbirth
and the rejection that many times would come
even from her own children.
I gave her a hardness
that allows her to keep going and take care of
her family and friends,
even when everyone gives up,
through sickness and fatigue
without complaining…
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children
under any and all circumstances.
Even when her child has hurt her badly…
She has the very special power
to make a child’s boo-boo feel better and
to quell a teenager’s anxiety and fears…
and I fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart…
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes test her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly…
For all of this hard work, i also gave her tear to shed.
It is hers to use whenever needed and it is her only weakness…
when you see her cry, tell her how much you love her,
and all she does for everyone and
even though she may still cry,
but you will have made her heart feel good.
A mother is special!
source: world wide web
God Bless for every tear shed…
We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have, but it rather comes by recognizing and appreciating all that we have.
In life, don’t expect anything from anyone. Because expectation, when not fulfilled, gives you pain. When you get something without expecting it, it gives you pleasure. Keep doing your part and leave the rest to God. 
Never search your happiness in others, which will make you feel alone, rather search it in yourself, you will feel happy, even if you are alone….
